It’s the dramas in life, the story we tell ourselves and each other that get us entangled and stuck. A conflict, whether with yourself or another, is a variation on this theme. It’s an entanglement. Some people, addicted to drama, seek out conflict. It feeds their passion and makes them feel alive and strong. Others like conflict especially if they … [Read more...]
Self Care – Enlightened Self-Interest
Self care, as a personal commitment and practice, is an expression of respecting and honoring the Self. Cats have a lot to teach us in this domain! Our attitude and outlook towards life, the quality of our energy, vitality and general condition will let us know, if we’re attentive, what we need to move towards balance in every moment. The … [Read more...]
Self Compassion and You
It is no surprise to me and I expect won’t surprise you either that people who treat themselves with compassion feel better about themselves and have better coping skills – are more able to respond rather than react to disappointments and setbacks. The September 2014 research study at the University of Waterloo, Ontario, by Kelly et al., 2014 … [Read more...]
A Story of Transformation and Growth
Before I started coaching with Julia I was lacking in confidence and also lacked the awareness and knowledge of how to go about helping myself. An experience years before undermined any confidence I'd had, both real and not real. Through coaching, I have overcome many inner obstacles and in the process found and have grown in confidence which I … [Read more...]
Your Inner Sanctuary – A Place of Sacred Connection
Inner space is the quiet space at the centre of your life. A space that only you can access and shape into a safe and sacred Inner Sanctuary that offers you a retreat from the busy-ness of the world where you can connect with what matters to you and renew yourself on a regular basis. At Kaizen Leadership Institute, we help you restore your … [Read more...]
Past, Present and Future – It’s all ONE
It’s all ONE – when you own your past. For when you own your past it doesn't own you. You've accepted it and accepting it you know it and yourself, Realizing what motivated you to make the choices you made You let go of the need to find someone to blame, feel guilt or shame. It just is what it is! Accepting your past, you accept … [Read more...]
Coping with Feelings of Betrayal and Resentment
Sometimes after a personal or professional set-back, we find ourselves surprised by strong feelings of betrayal and resentment that arise when friends and family members respond to us with less empathy/kindness and understanding than how we would have hoped. In this workshop you will learn proven strategies to experience your emotions with a … [Read more...]
Coping with Feelings of Betrayal and Resentment
Sometimes after a personal or professional set-back, we find ourselves surprised by strong feelings of betrayal and resentment that arise when friends and family members respond to us with less empathy/kindness and understanding than how we would have hoped. In this workshop you will learn proven strategies to experience your emotions with a … [Read more...]
Why Mindfulness?
Our minds are endlessly creative, restless, impetuous and incessantly jumping from one idea to another; clutching and grasping, inventing one scenario after another – in short – our minds are undisciplined. The practice of mindfulness meditation creates awareness and cultivates inner calm, peace and a quiet resilience. Mindfulness meditation is … [Read more...]